How does a child deal with racism when they don’t yet know what it is? How can a child understand and grasp the concept of racism when they are ignorant to its existence? As a firm believer that racism and other prejudices and biases are taught, not learned, to children by the tainted adults in their life, it was quite hard for me to try and understand why my parents would get upset when I was singled out or when I mentioned daily scenarios in passing to them and be met with an angry huff or a frown. Thinking their anger was directed at me, it took years before I realized that my parents were upset at the actions of the people I was describing and the stressor that was racism and that it even existed in my innocent world.
The belief in unfounded stereotypes is passed down from one generation to the next. For a child to deal with racism in school, as I did, leaves a profound impact on learning how to get along with others. Being in a situation as the only African-American girl in my class, I found it difficult to find someone to relate to and for many years, was unaware of my true background. When we were assigned projects on our cultural background, I always said I was from Ghana. It wasn’t as accepted back then (and possibly because of my parents’ influence) to say that (though it obviously wasn’t a secret), our family history is from the slave trade. Now, I explain my background to people as Southern Black, meaning my family was brought over to this country from Africa during the salev trade and the majority of them and generations to come remained in the south once slavery was abolished. That cultural background and history gives me a rich dynamic when it comes to food, music and genetics. However, back when I was a little girl, it was much easier to give up that identity and make it easy on the White teachers who were expecting this project, to make it simple, clear and avoid making any waves by just saying I was from Africa. The sad part is (as I said above), my parents encouraged this.
Since Ghana was my make-believe homeland, I decided to look up stressors that affect their children. It was hard to focus on one area because I was met with a deluge of information (poverty, child labor, sexuality, infectious diseases). One of the bigger issues is female genital mutilation. While I was studying for my undergrad degree the first time, I wrote a final paper on FGM in Africa and am surprised to see that it is still a problem that plaues young women in Africa. This speaks to the inequality of the sexes, which is quite amazing to me to see the dynamics in other countries, compared to the US. According to the Fact Sheet on Harmful, Traditional Practices Affecting the Health of Women and Children, one of the most noticeable achievements at the international level has been the lifting of the taboo against addressing the issue of female genital mutilation, which is now acknowledged as a violation of the human rights of women and the girl child.